I FINALLY DECIDED TO BE HONEST WITH MY PARENTS AND TELL THEM ABOUT MY BOYFRIEND THAT I'VE BEEN WITH FOR 6 MONTHS NOW HE'S 21 I'M 4 YEARS YOUNGER THAN HIM YOU DO THE MATH. BUT ANY WAYS MY MOM DOESNT LIKE THE IDEA OF THE AGE DIFFERENCE AND THINKS THAT IM ONLY WITH HIM BECAUSE I'M SCARED OF HIM AND HIS MINIPULATING ME. WHICH IS NOT TRUE I JUST REALLY HAVE STRONG FEELINGS FOR HIM. BUT SHE TOLD ME AND HIM YESTERDAY TO END WHAT EVER WE GOT GOING ON EVEN THE PHONE CALL'S AND TEXTING OR SHE'S EITHER GONNA GET MY FATHER TO TURN MY PHONE OFF, SEND ME TO LIVE WITH MY FATHER, OR HAVE MY BOYFRIEND ARRESTED. I SERIOUSLY AT THIS MOMENT HATE HER SHE'S BE FUCKING UP MY LIFE FOR ABOUT 5 YEARS NOW IM IN MY LAST YEAR OF HIGH SCHOOL AND I'M ABOUT TO GO TO COLLEGE AND I CANT EVEN DATE SOME ONE FOUR YEARS OLDER THAN ME. I JUST WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHAT YA'LL THINK I SHOULD DO. LET THE GUY I LOVE GO BECAUSE MY MOTHER ISN'T HAPPY? LET HIM MOSTLIKELY LOSE HIS FREEDOM FOR DOING WHAT IS RIGHT AND STAYING WITH THE GIRL HE LOVES? OR GETTING SENT TO LIVE WITH MY FATHER?

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stop it,

well you seem to think you're so grown, a real adult who is thinking logically would understand men come and go and that a relationship that begins in your teen is not really going to last. and someone your age should understand that your mother is just trying to protect you from getting hurt. do you want him to get arrested? are you really that stupid. your feelings are fueled by hormones. just simmer down and listen to ur mom

2008-11-04 09:25:45

RR,

Sounds like your mother is just looking out for your best interest. We don't always see the things our mothers do when we claim to be " in love". Apparently there is something off about this boyfriend of yours. Its best you just back off and listen to your mother. I know it sucks, but there will be other boyfriends. Or if its supposed to happen when you are OF AGE you two may reconnect. Don't be selfish about this, and end up getting him arrested. That wouldn't be fair to him. Mommy's house= Mommy's rules.

2008-11-04 09:52:50

EverybodyHasIssues,

Sweetheart please listen to your mother! I regret not listening to my mother...Don't get me wrong mothers can be wrong too...but in this situation I think she just wants what is best for you. You're about to go to college, focus on you!!!! If he wants you he will be available when you're ready (18+)...

2008-11-04 10:36:42

Reality Check,

Grow up! Focus on school, after all it is you last year. You want to be grown, and your just a child. It's your momma's house. If old boy love you then get out and let him take care of you. Let him pay your phone bill, then she could get it cut off. So while your putting you neck on the chopping block for ur boyfriend, think about what he is not providing for you. I know you (THINK) your in love, but you have alot of time for that. I know you sleeping with him, that's why your smelling your ass. Just remember you can't take a newborn to your college dorm. In other words enjoy life, your young.

2008-11-04 11:37:26

Que,

Class of 09!!!!!! Anyway, until u turn 18, she can have him arrested so pretend to break up with him! Me, I wouldn't have said anything, it's good that you are a honest person but not saying anything would have kept ya'll safe. Stage a fake break-up to convince ur family, give it a lil time and continue the relationship

2008-11-04 12:51:16

Que09,

&& Teens can feel love, There is a such thing as high school sweethearts.... how are we ever gonna know about love if we don't get to experience anything? Even though there is a lot of time for love

2008-11-04 14:10:35

Lavender,

WELL THANKS FOR THE ADVISE EVERYONE AND THANKS FOR BEING ON MY SIDE Que09

2008-11-04 15:04:33

HAPPy GIRL,

Listen to your mother but make the best decision for you. Guys come in and out of your life and 21 is a bit too old for you sweetie. Does he have a job, is he in college, car, apartment, etc. What can he do for you mentally, spirtually, and intellectually? I guess if he is good for you ,go for it but if he is 21 and doing nothing with his life than leave it alone it will be a waste of time.

2008-11-04 15:58:03

latina,

i think u should do what que said and fake it until you make 18 until you can be with him. because if you love him and he shows you that he loves you then nothing else should matter. honey sometimes relationships dont last bnut they need to let you experieence for yourself because you only learn from your maistakes. and your mom done made her life and so did your dad they need to let you live yours now. dont get me wrong your parents may be right but if the boy treats you good and does not humilaite you or make you feel down and shows you love then you should keep with him.. but never put up with any shit a man comes to you with because next time they would do you worst. take care and hopefully you would make the right decision. much luck to you!

2008-11-04 16:58:31

fuck off,

just wait until your 18

2008-11-05 13:51:21

rere,

If he loves u the same way u love him then stay together u will be 18 soon then she can't say anything. If he feels differently about the situation then do what u have to do

2009-03-04 11:58:32

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