Ok about 6 months agao I met this chick on myspace, now mind you i had never been with a girl before but it was something about her that turned me on. After talking on the phone for about two days we decided to meet up and we have been together ever since. This girl make my body do things that it has never done before she makes me feels things I never felt before, hell it's amazing. She gets along with my son and my son adores her initially it was suppose to be sex with her but I LOVE HER. I'm not too comfortable with the girlfriend title because I don;t consider myself to be gay and I'm really not into lables I'm just a woman who like women. Often times I notice that she is bothered when I dont want to go certain places or do somethings and I always say that I'm not ready yet. WHAT SHOULD I DO??

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Mz Naturally Wet,

Find out what you wanna do and stop using this chick to please you

who cares what people think if you happy with her and you have to be to love her then fuck what everybody says

2008-10-15 13:50:13

I LIKE GIRLS,

EASIER SAID THAN DONE, I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO

2008-10-15 13:58:38

MzNaturallyWet,

try try real hard what are you afraid of

2008-10-15 14:00:26

pump your brakes,

You don't have to rush anything that you are not ready for. Period. When she got with you it was for sex too. She had no idea like you that it would last this long. If you told her she was your first, and knowing what she knows about how things may get complicated with you if you do things her way, she should understand. If not you guys may have to say goodbye because she is going to demand more and more of a position in your life, which is natural for any partner to want to do. The question is, are you ready for that?

2008-10-15 14:06:12

and..,

don't be so quick to bring her or anyone else around your son like that. life is confusing enough as it is without you showing him all of that. What if things don't work out? Then what? How do you explain that to him?

2008-10-15 14:07:47

Honey,

She's afraid of being JUDGED...... I completely understand. I love this site, because it lets someone be themselves. In the real world its not always easy to be yourself or broadcast to the world who you love. Everything is not always Black & White. The things we do not only affect us, but those around us. Explain to her your concerns and take things slowly.

2008-10-15 14:08:35

Think it over,

If you know in your heart that right now you want to be with this PERSON, you better tell her. "Look baby I'm really feeling you, but I'm not ready for the next step." If it's real she'll chill.

Anyways

Dueces

2008-10-15 15:10:29

carmel delight,

I can completlly relate to this story because I'm expiercing the same. My ex, yes ex, could not be patient as I sought thru my decision to be publically out with her. When I asked to be given time she damn near threw me out of the closet. so hince I ended it. Take the time and be sure because it is a major step that your taking.

2008-10-16 00:07:51

Real,

take your time dont rush into anything patience is a virtue

2008-10-16 00:55:12

TracyLEE,

YOUR SELFISH , SHE CAN PLEASURE YOU AND MEET YOU DAUGHTER... BUT YOU DON'T WAN TTO HANG OUT...YOU HAVE IT BACKWARDS ...STUPID BITCH

2008-10-16 14:41:44

EverybodyHasIssues,

Take your time. Your son have to live with your decisions.

2008-10-17 09:03:25

girlswagga,

U love her or do u love sleeping with her? If you don't want to go out with her or do certains things with her then she'll find someone to do it...but if u want to be with her indoors only let her know so that she can act accordingly...

2008-11-02 14:52:30

GABRIELLE TERRY,

TO TRACYLEE, I THINK THAT YOU CAN GET YOUR POINT ACROSS WITHOUT CALLING ANYONE A BITCH.

NOW BACK TO THE ISSUE AT HAND: TRY TO FIGURE OUT AT HAND WHAT YOUR VIEW OF LIVE REALLY IS. ONCE YOU KNOW THAT YOU CAN MAKE A CLEAR DECISION ON WHAT TO DO. BUT THE REAL THING IS NEVER PRESSURED TO BE IT JUST IS. TAKE YOUR TIME. MAKE SURE YOU ARE NOT CONFUSING GREAT SEX(and sex with women is real good)WITH LOVE!!

2009-07-13 13:52:32

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